Finn is a talented healer with a caring heart and charming smile. I’m super grateful for my tapping session with him. He started by listening to me and dropping into a really safe space where I felt heard and supported. And then he guided me into some emotionally charged material. Every step along the way, I could feel that he had me and was tuned in with me so I didn’t get overwhelmed. Finn shared some really insightful observations that gave me new perspective on how I’m showing up in the world. He helped me find my growth edge. We wrapped up the session with a huge hug – I felt the relief of letting go of emotional stuff and the satisfaction of doing some good work.

Matt Strum

Did you think, that at the age of seventy, I‘d still striving to be true to myself, and longing to know who I am? Well I am. And I’m filled with joy and enthusiasm on the journey, at least for the most part. I’m writing this not only because Finn asked me if I’d be interested, but because you don’t to have to wait until you are seventy to find out. There is Finn Deerhart to accompany you. In the last six months of working with Finn I have gone deeply into the core of my being. He is one of these rare people on the earth that did not let the abuse the pain and humiliation from those around him crush his lust for life. It appears that he has transformed all that through peeling away the walls he used to protect himself and he has come closer to reveling his own true self, to himself. Through the gifts that come from such struggle he is able to create, surround his gay brothers, with the safety and trust needed to become aware of their own unique walls and help them to de-construct them stone by stone.

There is another, of the many, aspects of his healing gift which is his deep love for humanity. I experience that we are in need to connect to the dignity that is our birthright from the core of our creation.

It seems to me that he has perceived something along these lines and transformed it into a will to serve his gay brothers so that they may truly shine out of that dignity which can change the world into communities where deeply honest intimacy can thrive.

David Leighton

Care Giver

I met Finn Deerhart at a fundraiser that we had jointly planned to support relief efforts for gay men in Chechnya and The LGBT Asylum Project, which provides pro-bono legal representation for LGBT immigrants who are fleeing persecution and seeking asylum in the U.S.  He immediately struck me as a kind, sensitive young man. Finn recently volunteered at another LGBT Asylum Project event, where he once again proved his ability to put people from a wide variety of backgrounds and ages at ease, and make them feel welcome. I only recently learned of the personal and emotional challenges that Finn has overcome. Those life experiences, combined with his gentle, spiritual demeanor, make him uniquely qualified to coach others who are seeking to make positive changes in their lives.

Adam Sandel

I first learned about Finn in spring 2017 when he spoke at a fundraiser for the LGBT homeless shelter my wife started in NJ back in 2014. Hearing Finn share his story of isolation which lead to victory was simply amazing.   His personal story was so vivid and open and it reinforced in me a new passion for helping others that are less fortunate. When we face challenging times, we’re often lead to believe that it will last forever. His story, his life is proof that all things are possible when you redirect the darkness and focus on overcoming it with light.   I’m grateful & this organization is grateful for people such as Finn who aren’t afraid of being vulnerable enough to lead by example!

Tamara Fleming

Working with Finn was a smooth and inspired process. Each year our organization hosts a benefit concert called Hear My Song to raise money for LGBT+ service organizations. Finn gave a moving and genuine talk about the struggles related to his queer identity and how he overcame them. Both professional and authentic, Finn maintained constant communication with our organizing team to ensure he met our needs for the event. Many people in the audience were moved by what he had to say including one of our soloists who, as a result, gave a powerful and emotional performance that brought down the house. Finn truly possesses a healing touch for queer people and their allies. We look forward to working with him again.

Steve Boughton

Since I started working with Finn several months ago, he has become a surprisingly important and positive influence in my life. I have worked with many different coaches, managers, mentors and teachers over the years, but Finn stands out among them as someone who genuinely cares and has a real impact on my life. He does so in a subtle and gentle, yet direct and uncompromising way. He is one of the least judgmental people I have ever met. He is kind but he is not weak. He asks very insightful questions that help me get in touch with what is really going on beneath the surface of my actions and point to what might be driving my insecurities or passions. Finn would have a meaningful impact on anyone who is looking for a coach. His compassionate and grounded leadership and support would be invaluable for anyone looking for help navigating this tumultuous world of relationships and achievement.

Stephanie Wei

Financial Services Executive

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