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November 30th | 7-11pm | Queer Men’s Cuddle Party

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Queer Men’s Cuddle Party Presented by Queer Connect with Finn Deerhart & Sam Sebastian GET TICKETS!! Our Cuddle Party is a social space to share loving, intimate touch with an awesome group of people. It’s an intentional, non-sexual space where you can learn and practice communicating boundaries and consent and various modalities of touch. Our […]

Fantasy As A Tool For Better Sex

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Fantasy is the vehicle that carries erotic energy from our psyches, through our bodies, into a resultant sexual experience. In realtime, fantasy powerfully corrects the inhibiting belief systems that we hold by allowing us to “see” ourselves in different ways than solely from the perceptions that are lodged in our subconscious minds. It is live […]

Upcoming Events

  1. November 11th | 2-5pm EST | Flavors of Desire

    November 11 @ 2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
  2. November 14th | 7-10pm | Love & Lust For Queer Men

    November 14 @ 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm
  3. November 30th | 7-11pm | Queer Men’s Cuddle Party

    November 30 @ 7:00 pm - 11:00 pm