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January 31 | San Francisco | Love & Lust for Queer Men

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Get Tickets! As gay and queer men, sex is central to our culture and connections with other men. Although we may be having lots of sex or longing for it, we may feel like something is missing. We can be torn between extremes, unsure how to harmonize our desires for hot sex with our longings for intimacy. Queer Connect […]

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Big thanks to Davey Wavey for including my advice in this awesome little video about how to increase pleasure and excitement with your partner! I’d love it if you tried this out and let me know how it goes! Join and get 20% off your membership at  Thank you to our gay sex […]

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  1. January 31 | San Francisco | Love & Lust for Queer Men

    January 31, 2019 @ 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm
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    February 21, 2019 @ 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm