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Finn Deerhart, Coach

Relationships and sex have been the lenses through which I have studied my own life and how it relates to my culture as a whole. Intimate self-knowledge has led me into healthier relationships and more fulfilling sex. The fragmentation and numbness I have felt in mainstream gay culture encouraged me to emerge authentically into what freedom means to me. Liberation has only begun to come as I release blame and actively seek to uncover personal truth. Finn brings 14 years combined experience in spiritual counseling, study of social anthropology, wellness coaching, and personal development.

What Clients Are Saying

“Finn is a talented healer with a caring heart and charming smile. I’m super grateful for my tapping session with him. He started by listening to me and dropping into a really safe space where I felt heard and supported. And then he guided me into some emotionally charged material. Every step along the way, I could feel that he had me and was tuned in with me so I didn’t get overwhelmed. Finn shared some really insightful observations that gave me new perspective on how I’m showing up in the world. He helped me find my growth edge. We wrapped up the session with a huge hug – I felt the relief of letting go of emotional stuff and the satisfaction of doing some good work.”

Matt Sturm – San Francisco, CA

 awakeningbliss.net and ritualtantra.com

“Working with Finn was a smooth and inspired process. Each year our organization hosts a benefit concert called Hear My Song to raise money for LGBT+ service organizations. Finn gave a moving and genuine talk about the struggles related to his queer identity and how he overcame them. Both professional and authentic, Finn maintained constant communication with our organizing team to ensure he met our needs for the event. Many people in the audience were moved by what he had to say including one of our soloists who, as a result, gave a powerful and emotional performance that brought down the house. Finn truly possesses a healing touch for queer people and their allies. We look forward to working with him again!”

Steve Boughton – Morris County, NJ

Organizer at Hear My Song LGBT Benefit Concert  lgbtvoices.com

“I met Finn Deerhart at a fundraiser that we had jointly planned to support relief efforts for gay men in Chechnya and The LGBT Asylum Project, which provides pro-bono legal representation for LGBT immigrants who are fleeing persecution and seeking asylum in the U.S.  He immediately struck me as a kind, sensitive young man. Finn recently volunteered at another LGBT Asylum Project event, where he once again proved his ability to put people from a wide variety of backgrounds and ages at ease, and make them feel welcome. I only recently learned of the personal and emotional challenges that Finn has overcome. Those life experiences, combined with his gentle, spiritual demeanor, make him uniquely qualified to coach others who are seeking to make positive changes in their lives.”

Adam Sandel – San Francisco, CA

The LGBT Asylum Project – cipsf.org

“I first learned about Finn in spring 2017 when he spoke at a fundraiser for the LGBT homeless shelter my wife started in NJ back in 2014. Hearing Finn share his story of isolation which lead to victory was simply amazing.   His personal story was so vivid and open and it reinforced in me a new passion for helping others that are less fortunate. When we face challenging times, we’re often lead to believe that it will last forever. His story, his life is proof that all things are possible when you redirect the darkness and focus on overcoming it with light.   I’m grateful & this organization is grateful for people such as Finn who aren’t afraid of being vulnerable enough to lead by example!”

Tamara Fleming – Essex County, NJ

Essex County LGBT R.A.I.N. Foundation