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Vulnerability at the Heart of Good Sex – 8/9/2018

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In this episode of Himeros Live we discuss the release of The Reveal, a video that I wrote for Himeros.tv, featuring a game to play with a lover that helps vulnerability emerge. This is a pre-sex ritual designed to enhance the emotional fueling of desire by sharing small personally vulnerable revelations. It is scalable, because […]

Excited to Share My Tip with Himeros.tv

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Big thanks to Davey Wavey for including my advice in this awesome little video about how to increase pleasure and excitement with your partner! I’d love it if you tried this out and let me know how it goes! Join Himeros.tv and get 20% off your membership at himeros.tv/sale.  Thank you to our gay sex […]

Technique for Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety

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When we encounter a recurring performance anxiety, shame or unpleasant emotion during sex, we might want to push it away and not fully deal with it. Unfortunately, ignoring these feelings won’t help. Here is a technique to help you start to work with those feelings as they arise in the moment. Big thanks to Davey […]

Orgasm, The Moment Of Creation

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Himeros TV is now featuring content that I have written, inspired by my own journey and by the lives and practices of the men in our community. Thank you for sharing your struggles, hopes, vulnerabilities and strengths with me! The moment of orgasm is sheer bliss. It takes us into a space and time that […]

Himeros Live Podcast Every Thursday at 4PM Pacific Time

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Have you been listening to Davey Wavey and friends on Himeros LIVE? It’s our weekly live podcast based on Himeros.tv’s newest videos – and you can listen or subscribe with Apple Podcasts or Google Play. Please rate and comment! It helps new people find us. Join Davey, Matthew, and Finn each week to hear discussions about sex and intimacy […]

Touch It Where It Hurts

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Many of us gay, queer and trans men enter into this world with secrecy and shame surrounding our sexualities. From birth, Sex and Spirit are divided, separate parts of our personalities that often seem to be in conflict with each other. Whether or not we realize it, we may spend our entire lives trying to […]

Fantasy As A Tool For Better Sex

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Fantasy is the vehicle that carries erotic energy from our psyches, through our bodies, into a resultant sexual experience. In realtime, fantasy powerfully corrects the inhibiting belief systems that we hold by allowing us to “see” ourselves in different ways than solely from the perceptions that are lodged in our subconscious minds. It is live […]

Hang in There! Message to youth at Essex County LGBT RAIN Foundation

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This video was created to address adolescents that are being housed by the Essex County LGBT RAIN Foundation, a non-profit that provides emergency shelter services to address the emergent need of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals experiencing crisis leading to homelessness. Programs at the foundation aim to help adolescents lead healthy, productive and meaningful […]