August 22nd | Online Workshop | Elements of Desire: Integrating Love & Lust for Boyfriends & Fuck-Buddies

Balancing Love & Lust is a learnable artform. You don’t have to settle for one or the other.

Buy Tickets Here! **Each couple, pod, or set of buddies only needs to purchase one ticket for all individuals involved together.

This 4-hour Zoom workshop will occur on August 22nd, 10-2pm PST. This particular Elements of Desire class has been designed for male-identified queer beings in relationships–boyfriends, partners, fuck-buddies, and poly-pods. ***Each couple, pod, or set of buddies only needs to purchase one ticket for all individuals involved together.

You will discover a specific set of skills that build upon each other and can be experienced in layers. These skills are useful to discover how expanding our sexual ranges in-and-out of our relationships can help us have hotter sex and greater intimacy at the same time. Think of practicing these Elements like playing scales, so that you can then play chords, so that you can compose beautiful music that emanates from the core of your being.

This practice is an essential process that will deepen your capacity to connect and enjoy hot sex that feels truly authentic– whether you are monogamous, open, poly, questioning, etc.

*Ditch needing to fantasize in order to cum.

*Get past the fear of discussing desires and fantasies with your partner(s).

*Break through inhibitions for more peak experiences.

*Shake up boring routines, erotic scripts, and monotonous sex.

*Identify underlying needs when pursuing sex.

*Create alignment between emotions & actions.

*Expand ranges of sexual expression.

*Recognize and encourage your partner’s erotic signals.

*Craft your own blueprint for an intentional self-practice & partner work.

NOTE: Please bring a journal or paper and something to write with, and wear comfortable clothing. This is a CLOTHING-ON educational exploration of many themes that appear in the collective domain of queer desire. We will be offering a variety of sexual playwork to do on your own with your partner(s)to be explored more deeply following the meeting. The workshop will include a range of processing, instruction, and embodied exercises.

**Zoom link to the workshop will be emailed 24 hours before the event begins! Please email me if you have any questions about the workshop and/or logistics.

Instructors: Finn Deerhart & Sam Sebastian

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