Love & Lust for Queer Men | September 25th | 7-10pm

With Finn Deerhart and Matt Sturm
Presented by Queer:Connect

Tuesday Sept 25th, 7-10pm
The Center SF Teahouse, 548 Fillmore Street, San Francisco, CA 94117


Are you feeling empty and disconnected from the hook-up culture? Have you had loving relationships where the passion and spark has fizzled away? Do you have the feeling that there’s something more, something deeper through lovemaking – and are you ready to explore?

Love & Lust:

In this workshop you will learn practical tools to have more fulfilling, satisfying connections in the bedroom. We start by de-conditioning and de-objectifying ourselves and our partners. Instead, we’ll teach you how to cultivate the intimacy you’ve been longing for and how to ignite your desire and passion, whether it’s with your life partner or a brand new connection. And ultimately, we’ll show you how to use your erotic life-force as a vehicle to explore our full expressive selves, to heal our wounds and step into wholeness.

What to Expect:

Our approach is a blend of group discussion and practical exercises. Drawing on Tantra, yoga, NVC, Hakomi, current theories in couples’ therapy, and EFT, Finn and Matt will share their expertise about desire, intimacy, and relationships. We’re creating a safe container for you to share about your experience. This clothing-on workshop is for anyone who identifies as a queer man.

We will cover:

*Tools to cultivate intimacy and connection
*Celebrating your erotic desire and stoking the flames of passion for lovemaking that never burns out
*Tantra and sacred sensuality
*Healing emotional and psychological wounds around our erotic selves and coming into wholeness


Queer : Connect is a community focused on fulfillment and wholeness through the erotic and relationships. Join us on a journey into desire, intimacy, shadow, and the mythic self. Queer : Connect is an open sanctuary to discuss and experience our full sensuality with a community of like-minded queer men. Through this journey, you will be invited into a balanced, integrated, and powerful expression of yourself as an erotic being.

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