SEXCRAFTING- 4-Week Queer Men’s Group

I’m SOOOO excited to be co-leading this course in October! Click to reserve your space in the class!


Sexcrafting is a 4 week journey for curious, conscious, attuned, queer men looking to create a deeper understanding of self through sex and relationship. This Men’s Group is a unique opportunity to intentionally explore our full sexual expression with a community of like-minded men. Sexcrafting is an invitation into mastery.


Growing into the fullness of your sexual expression in a way that is safe, respectful, and powerful
Dedicated to mastering your sexual energy, stamina, and vitality
Integrating your fragmented parts and exploring your shadows
Excited for a richer dialogue about the masculine/feminine and top/bottom archetypes
Cultivating deeper levels of intimacy and sustainable connection
Gay, Queer, Bi, or Trans and have a masculine gender expression


Sexcrafting is a blend of group discussion and practical instruction. We believe in the guru within you and are excited to hear your voice. Drawing on Tantra, yoga, NVC, Hakomi, current theories in couples’ therapy, and EFT, Finn and Matt will share their expertise about sex, desire, intimacy and relationships. This will be a safe space to release shame, integrate our fragmented parts and in the process to open to our authentic selves. Through this journey, you will be invited into a balanced, integrated, and powerful expression of yourself as a sexual being.

We will cover:
Designing your daily practice to enhance your energy, mindfulness, and creativity
Tantra’s approach to men’s body-mechanics: Vitality, Stamina, and Attunement
Erotic desire as teacher and vehicle to wholeness
Conscious relating for lasting intimacy, desire, and loving presence
Exploring archetypes of polarity (Masc/Fem, Top/Bottom, etc..) and the mythology of sex
EFT Tapping as a resource for anxiety and triggers around sex


What am I really looking for?
What am I seeking to heal in my current relationships?
Why do I repeatedly experience this same trigger?
Do I feel connected or disconnected in sex?
Am I fully myself with my partner(s)?
What does sex mean for me?
Do I feel heard by my partner?
Do I feel emotionally safe in my sexual relationship(s)?
What do my fantasies tell me about my needs?


Wednesday Oct 4, 7-10pm
Wednesday Oct 11, 7-10pm
Wednesday Oct 18, 7-10pm
Wednesday Oct 25, 7-10pm


FINN DEERHART, Life Coach: Relationships and sex have been the lenses through which I have studied my own life and how it relates to my culture as a whole. Intimate self-knowledge has lead me into healthier relationships and more fulfilling sex. The fragmentation and numbness I have felt in mainstream gay culture encouraged me to identify with a sense of freedom without containment, a reaction to shame shared among us since my arrival on the planet. Liberation has only begun to come as I release blame and actively seek to uncover personal truth. I am finding a way to integrate my raw sexuality and my spiritual drive through this work. Finn brings fourteen years combined experience in spiritual counseling, study of social anthropology, wellness coaching and personal development.

MATT STURM, Tantra Teacher: I am following a calling to share the gift of Tantra with the world. Through workshops, coaching, and private sessions, I integrate meditation, yoga, sexuality, and ritual into your path of spiritual growth. I teach hands-on methods for inhabiting our bodies, cultivating deep intimacy, and tuning in to the universal love within us all. My approach is practical and experiential with just the right amount of Woo. I’ve loved the practical tools and spiritual experience of Tantra but have always chafed at the hetero-centric presentation – I’m excited to share these teachings more inclusively. I’m a Certified Tantra Educator, Yoga teacher, and am currently studying the Hakomi Method of psychotherapy.

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